How would you react if your Boyfriend forgets Valentines day?would you tell him or will u keep it to yourself?

I%26#039;m going out with a guy for over 4 months and today was supposed to be our first Valentine together.





I was expecting him to plan something for today and send me


some flowers but he didn%26#039;t until I mentioned it!! He said he forgot all about it and he will make it up to me, but told him that was not the point!!The whole point was to spend a night together and have a romantic dinner!! How can a guy forget this special day?





At first I didn%26#039;t feel good by telling him that but then I thought Its better to be said than keeping it to myself and that will hurt me more!





Cut the story short, about few hours ago Ive received a bouquet of roses from him which was very nice and i was very surprised that he has managed to get me same day delivery!





Anyway I%26#039;ve text and thanked him but in his reply he was sarcastic and said he felt that today I took this too personal and he was surprised by my reaction!!!





What and how would you reply to his comment?? I don%26#039;t know what to do now!! Any suggestion?

How would you react if your Boyfriend forgets Valentines day?would you tell him or will u keep it to yourself?
This isn%26#039;t just about Valentine%26#039;s Day. It is about his inability to give, and to make you happy. I have sneaking suspicion that you are probably giving more to the relationship than he is. Am I right? The sad thing about your situation is, the beginning of a relationship is when the man is doing whatever he can to impress you and win your heart.





Women, too often, give their hearts to someone too soon!! We make it too easy, so why then should a man even try to win our hearts when we readily hand it over without having them show us that we can trust them with our heart.





You aren%26#039;t going to like my answer, but it has only been 4 months.......... you need to drop him and let yourself be found by a man


~ who will want YOUR happiness more than his own


~ who wants to win and KEEP your heart.


~ who delights in giving tokens of his affection to you.





You and I both know that it isn%26#039;t about the amount of money a man spends on gifts - but the thought that goes into the gift. When a man gives a woman a gift, he is sending her a message about how he feels about her. When a man doesn%26#039;t give a gift on special occasions........... he is sending her a message as well!!!! Many a woman would be happy to receive just a card - if the card had a written message of how he felt about her.





How does a man forget(???) Valentine%26#039;s Day, let alone Christmas?????? If he is truly %26quot;into you%26quot; aka %26quot;trying to win your heart%26quot; he is looking for every opportunity to prove he is the one for you.





So my advice......... drop him, and let yourself be found by a man deserving of your love and affection and NEVER settle for less.
Reply:dont struck to enjoy one day only, otherwise life will become a calender. didn%26#039;t u people had romantic dinner %26amp; night before. try to enjoy whole life, treat everyday as your day.





If he forgot you could have send him the bouquet after all u are known to each other from 4 months, dont expect too much formalities u 2 will feel more comfortable being with each other.
Reply:beat him round the head with something and say %26#039;you twit!%26#039; lol





oh hunny, Ive just read the extra you put on the bottom, Im afraid it seems this guy doesnt care much and he will never change his ways because annoyingly men dont, he needs to go! It will be hard at first but you will move on and find someone who really appreciates you and who would never forget anything that has something to do with you.





good luck hun x
Reply:Thank you for this question. For three years, I worked at a floral call center, and I used to get same day orders out for guys like this man, so I%26#039;m not at all surprised at his reaction.





I can tell you EXACTLY why he is being sarcastic...and why you cannot and SHOULD NOT do anything about it.





NO ONE likes to be manipulated or %26quot;expected%26quot; to do something simply because it%26#039;s a societal expectation. That floral delivery was NOT an expression of genuine love, but a response to the pressure you exerted because you, like so many other women, are obsessed with seeking validation or feeling superior to others because you just have to prove you %26quot;have somebody.%26quot; You basically bought YOURSELF flowers...only someone else paid for it!





What you did here is a EXCELLENT demonstration as to why MOST men and a growing number of women HATE Valentine%26#039;s Day and don%26#039;t want to celebrate it! It%26#039;s proven my point re: why Valentine%26#039;s Day is such a ridiculous and overrated holiday.





There really is NOTHING for you to %26quot;do.%26quot; He%26#039;s already formed his opinion of you with this immature action of yours. So just enjoy the flowers as well as your hollow victory.





Yes, this is harsh, and I realize the truth hurts, but just consider this a valuable lesson of what not to do in a %26quot;new relationship%26quot; Truth of the matter is 4 month is too premature to be expecting to celebrate a major holiday together...especially one fraught with unrealistic expectations like Valentine%26#039;s Day.





Next time, you%26#039;ll know better...if there%26#039;s a %26quot;next time%26quot; with this man. In my experiences, most of the resentful men tended to break it off in favor of women who aren%26#039;t as high maintenance...and yes, I got their flower orders, too...and saw the difference in the attitudes.
Reply:Hmmm, four months is long enough, I assume you are doing the wild thing with him, I wonder if he would have waited four months for that.... anyway, its up to you love, if you think hes not that into you because of this event then dump him, or forgive him and move on, he was bieng a bit of an uncaring sod, its not like Valentines day isnt advertised everywhere, you would have to be living underground not to kow about it, so that excuse dosnt hold any water, but maybe hes just not the romantic type, if you want the romantic type, you%26#039;re barking up the wrong tree with this one!
Reply:hunny get use to it.. i mean i dont think guys mean to do it. i mean the guy will forget your b-day and other days you want him to remember. some guys just forget or some guys dont think the days are important. if it really bothers you just bring it up. dont yell and be mad just be like well i kind of wish you would have remebered. i mean you never know sometimes guys %26quot;forget%26quot; its v-day and have something very big planed and act like thet %26quot;forgot%26quot; so you wont be thinking what did he get me? where is he taking me?....
Reply:Don%26#039;t take it to heart ... remembering dates are not that important to many men. My husband of 14 years has to be reminded when Heart Day is - a buddy at this work told him Valentine%26#039;s Day was the 15th and my sweetie marked it down and then his buddies all laughed because he doesn%26#039;t remember dates. I gently remind him, and he always does something special for me. Better something special than nothing at all! The guy cared enough for you to make up for it - I think you need to show him you are grateful for his efforts!
Reply:When your expecting somthin 9 times out of 10 you will be disapointed. Its only 4mths maybe his idea of romantic is spending time with you? Not spending money!


Dont think I am hard I am romantic as the next but I am a realist, if you want romance and sweeping off your feet then your with the wrong person, they dont change!! Leave him.


If you want a steady bloke who will be honest and value the real things then this may be the one.


My husband has never bought me a card not cause hes mean just cause its his way.
Reply:Well I must say that I think you%26#039;re overreacting a bit... It%26#039;s a very silly holiday that%26#039;s been made into more crap than it should be. How about you just say thank you for the flowers and let it go. Remember that this day means absolutely nothing to guys... or most people these days for that matter.
Reply:i think you did over react. you have only been dating 4 months....thats not very long.since you freaked over valentines day so early in the relationship he knows how you would act about other things later on.





noone should have to make a big fuss on one day in particular to prove how much they care for you.love should be shown everyday.dont be insecure.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think you will have to tell him , he will be able to tell by the way you act.
Reply:Well as I guy I can only suggest two theories.


One: He was just joking around and he DID remember Valentine%26#039;s day which you should find out.


2: He didn%26#039;t remember it in which, you should not give too much thought, it%26#039;s not that great of a holiday, but you should get him a calendar.
Reply:4 months is no big deal and anyway why are u complaining? u should have planned it if u wanted it... u didnt even get him anything.. at least he got u the roses.... mucher nicer than what u did for him.. complain :
Reply:|lol omg i thought that girl called you a twit. oh that sounds like me. i would for sure tell him. there%26#039;s no way he missed vday. and he could have played it off much better. my b/f didn%26#039;t get me a christmas gift..and he was stuck, only walgreens open.
Reply:I would tell him. My boyfriend of FIVE years did not get me a thing for Valentine%26#039;s day!! I even sent flowers to his house plus I bought him candy, a dvd, book and card. In the past, he has always gotten me flowers and candy. And, our first year together, he got me a ruby heart ring also.He sent me a text message after I text him saying %26quot;Happy Valentine%26#039;s day%26quot;, but that is all I got.I was really hurt and disappointed.Valentine is suppose to be a day for love, so I don%26#039;t feel like I was a priority.No longer than you have been with your boyfriend, though, I can%26#039;t believe he forgot. Happy Valentine%26#039;s Day!!
Reply:he did not forget it was valentines - its in the papers, it has been in card shops for weeks, on the telly, everyone at work mentions it at some point - he is just one of those men who is not bothered about it and did not think it important. I am presuming you bought him a card and a present - if not you cannot complain!





It depends what he is like usually and how much you like him whether you forgive and forget but I would not be impressed - expecially as there was no need to be sarcastic.





You decide either continue to with the relationship and hope he remembers your birthday - he wont forget V day again i am sure - or you decide you are worth more then him





Look after yourself and don%26#039;t stew about this too much - decide one way or the other and then forgive and forget.
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Reply:ignore him he knows that if you dump him he wouldnt find anyone as special as you and he would be in peices if you left him.. he might have been to scared to give you a present at first..hope this helps!




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